More on a non-relationship

Saturday...
Yes, this has been a very good week for sex! B has been up three more times since last Satuday when we had our sex, drugs and music all-nighter. Sunday, Tuesday and Friday - wonderful! And in amongst all that I had the illicit encounter in a hotel on Wednesday morning with Brighton. Five days out of seven ain't bad! And the Angry Ex text me asking for sex on Friday night too ha ha.

As I've decided to have a break from casual sex until after the next sex, drugs and music all-nighter with B which should be on Thursday, period willing, here is a summary of the story and the characters so far...

The Major Players
B or you could call him Mr Right as far as sex goes - wow!
The Angry Ex - last long term relationship, finished for good end of March
Brighton - married man from casual sex website, one encounter so far

Minor Characters
The Brickie - my first attempt at casual sex and a disaster!
The Kid - 20 yrs old, has a thing about older women, so far just chat on MSN
J - experienced swinger, chat on MSN

The Story So Far
The Angry Ex and I enjoyed sex together though he would use it as a way of being spiteful towards me. He would deny me sex or complain that I wasn't good looking enough or that sex with me was boring. Oh it's a different story now that he can't have me! Now he says I'm the best he's ever had and keeps begging me for sex.

The relationship with The Angry Ex was so verbally abusive for so long that I signed up to an interent dating site to try and find a new boyfriend. There I found B. We met and then I invited him to my house for sex (wanton hussy!). For a first time it was lovely and he thought so too. The second time he came to sleep with me he was on viagra, weed, coke and ecstasy unbeknownst to me. It was a spectacular eight hour all-nighter of mindblowing sex. Then he told me he wasn't interested in being my boyfriend but was up for being a fuck buddy. How could I not be up for amazing sex like that! I thought it over and decided to go for it but with some negotiation. Hence we arrived at the idea of the non-relationship. Take all the good bits of a relationship and ditch the bullshit. So we don't do 'couple' stuff like going out to the pub/movies etc, going shopping together or for days out. We meet up in the evening when we talk, take drugs, listen to music and have sex. But we are friends not just lovers and so I do him favours and he does me favours. This way we hope to avoid bickering, getting on each other's nerves, obligations and the like, which are the types of things that start to wear a relationship down and in the end the sex dwindles. So you lose the very thing that you got together for in the first place!

So for a while I was sleeping with B and The Angry Ex he he. Then The Angry Ex read my text messages and flipped. I haven't slept with him since but he's begged me for sex or phone sex several times.

I was outrageously horny after having sex on e with B. B's time was limited and he could offer sex once or twice a week only. As we had made no promises regarding fidelity and he specifically wanted to be able to sleep with other women if he felt like it I continued to meet guys from the dating website. None of them were sexy and I realised that I was barking up the wrong tree if I was just looking for another fuck buddy. So I started looking at casual sex websites. What a revelaiton! Then the disastrous Brickie! I can't bear to repeat that story so please refer to a much earlier previous post for that one!

After the Brickie fiasco I started chatting to Brighton and The Kid on MSN. I sent them both photos of me dressed up, in my underwear and finally, just to Brighton, ones of me naked. I saw many pictures of them of course and live webcam footage...After a couple of weeks I met Brighton on the beach where he finger fucked me for an hour an a half. That was hot! Another two weeks passed and we met at the hotel in town for two and a half hours of sex. It was good but of course not a patch on sex with B. Hence the hiatus while I decide whether to give up sleeping with other guys and just be happy with B...or not!

If you want all the gory details with thoughts, reactions and reflections from me then please go back and read this blog from the first post!